Bobby’s Roses…

bobbys dried roses

There is a bouquet of dried white roses hanging by a ribbon in my kitchen window. They have been hanging there for more than 15 years. I have had quite a few funny looks when people come into my kitchen and see them hanging there in front of my window. I will never move them and Lord help the person that throws them away.

These roses were a gift from my son Bobby. He has always brought me flowers every day and they are usually flowers from God’s garden. You know the type if you’ve had children or young children in your life. They can be anything from an actual flower to a weed they think is beautiful. I have several sized vases so that no matter what he brings me there will always be a vase to fit his treasures for me. I did have a bit of trouble when he decided to bring me a branch off my Fuchsia bush, but I managed to find a large enough pitcher to fit it and place on my table. That’s where ALL his flowers go. Right in the middle for all to see and enjoy.

Why are these so special to me? Well, my son Bobby is my ‘forever’ little boy. At the age of 16, he worked and helped his Papa for actual money. The money he earned that day he took to Safeway and bought me a bouquet of white roses…they were wrapped in a beautiful ribbon (which they still hang by) and the smile on his face when he handed me that bouquet is one I will never forget. He was so proud and happy to be bringing me ‘a whole bunch of real roses’. I didn’t want to put them in a vase to die in a week and then be thrown out. I wanted to save them forever. I asked if I could hang them and dry them and he said I could. They have been hanging in that same spot all this time. When we remodeled the kitchen, I took them down just long enough to paint the area and back up they went.

Those roses are one of my very special gifts that I treasure and I will not throw them away as long as I live. So whether you think they are ugly or think I’m crazy for having them hang there, or just wonder ‘what the heck’… I don’t care. They are a gift from my son and I will never part with them….not ever.



New Contest in the Works…..

Some exciting news…I’m going to start a new contest real soon…it’s only going to be for 48 hours so you will need to act fast AND there is nothing to buy….How exciting it that? I think you all will find it fun and especially rewarding for one lucky individual…Counting down to the day….


Celebrating my Momma…


January 26, 2014…the day my momma passed. It’s been a year today and I sat down with myself and asked…Do I morn for her today or do I celebrate the woman that raised me? Today, one year after her passing, I choose to celebrate the woman she was…the momma she was to me, to my brother and sisters, and the wife she was to my father.

I saw a picture the other day that said, “I am who I am today because of my angel mother…” That is a true statement!!

My momma was a great woman, mother, and wife. She loved her family with all her heart and soul. I know this for a fact and I’m living proof of that love. I’m going to share a few things with you today about my momma and the things she taught me. I hope you will get to know us a bit better after I’m through…

There are so many stories I could tell…she was an amazing woman! Did she do the kind of  things that put her in the spot light? No…Was she famous? No…Did she love her family and take care of them no matter what? Yes! My momma lived to care for us…she loved to do the things a mom was supposed to do for her her family. When I say she was amazing, I mean just that…she did amazing things that most people wouldn’t give a second thought to…

Growing up, we didn’t have a lot of money, but we never really knew that. My mother cooked, cleaned, and baked with love in her heart. She had a gift, given to her by God. The gift of nurturing. Some may think that’s not so special…singing, dancing, painting, acting, playing a musical instrument, playing sports…now those are gifts!! Not so…the greatest gift the Lord can give a woman is the gift of nurturing and he gave that gift to my mom in abundance.

Now for a few stories…some funny, some not so funny, but all will be a celebration of who my momma was and why I do the things I do today.

So, I always thought I was adopted. True, I did, which is funny because I look just like my brother, or yet, because I’m older, he looks just like me…but, you see at 12 years I felt very different from my family…they all could sing, not me…I was kicked out of choir in the 6th grade..Yup, it’s true. All of my family could sing except me…my little brother played the drums when he was so small he couldn’t even see above the counter to pay for them…in my eyes I had no talents of any kind so therefore, I must have been adopted. Right? My momma said that was so silly and took me into her bedroom… to her bottom drawer of her dresser. You know the drawer. It contained all the important papers and documents..I believe all moms have a drawer like this…she pulled out a large manila envelope and searched through it. She said it contained my birth certificate and my birth certificate will show me the proof that I was indeed her child and was not adopted. Much to her dismay, there were three sets of documents…mine were not among them. Yup! I was adopted…I was positive. She didn’t know what happened. Why they weren’t there, but she insisted that I was not adopted and then started telling me about my birth…she told me about her laboring, about how she and the nurses thought I was the most beautiful baby in the nursery. She showed me baby pictures and my baby bracelet…I was pretty darned cute…

I remember asking her, “Then why can’t I sing like the rest of you?” Her answer was simple…”Because God gave you your own talents…you just need to find out what they are and develop them. I can tell you right now that he gave you the gift of sewing and cooking and those are great talents.” (not when you are 12!) A few weeks later a letter came in the mail and she handed it to me to open…inside was my birth certificate. PROOF! She told me that she had each and every one of us and we were all so very special in our OWN way. Okay, I was not adopted. I was her child. I was happy. After all, He gave my momma those same talents, right? …but, she could sing too…and she had some silly songs she taught me like Catalina Matalina, Lonely Little Petunia, and  and Every Party Needs a Pooper! I must have took her weeks to teach me the Catalina Matalina song…oh, and her school cheer…Still know all the words to this day, too!

My momma made most of our clothes. She was very good at it and I don’t think many people knew we wore handmade clothes. They were always done to perfection. From play clothes, to prom dresses and winter formals, to wedding dresses… she made them all and they were amazing. She taught me how to sew when I was 7. I received a little Singer Mini Sewing Machine for my 7th birthday. Even though it was small, it was a real machine with a bobbin winder and everything!! I was so excited.

mini touch and sew

She bought me a couple Simplicity Barbie patterns and I made all my Barbie’s clothes on that machine. I think I had the best dressed Barbie of all my friends…As I grew older I started making my own clothes on it. When I was going into the 7th grade my momma decided I was old enough to use her machine…she had a Golden Touch and Sew!! Oh my goodness it was the greatest gift. I made 5 corduroy mini skirts (it was 1968-69) for school that year.  She continued to teach me and as the years rolled on, I got better and better. The knowledge came in handy a few years later, but that’s another story!

I remember always being in the kitchen with my momma and helping her cook, cut, or just watch. I idolized her and the gift she had for making the cheapest cuts of meat taste wonderful, although I didn’t realize it then. All I knew was my momma made the best meals!

I was nine years old when I got my prized possession…

1962 easy bake oves

With momma’s help I was able to make all kinds of things and she let me bake right along side her. I remember her making little mixes for me because to buy them was too expensive! I had a little box in the kitchen with my mixes and such so when I wanted to bake there was always something in my box I could pull out and make. They didn’t always come out good, but she always praised me for my efforts and would eat what ever I made. Especially the corn bread…she would put it in milk (gross!!) and eat it that way….Several years later I asked her why she did that and she said, “because it was half raw and the raw part would mix with the milk so she could get it down without me knowing how bad it tasted.” hahaha..I know as a mom I have eaten some pretty bad stuff…always with a smile and never letting my kids know that what they prepared for me was often times inedible…she was a great mom!! Perfect? no, one is, but she gave me a part of her that I cherish to this day…her love was truly unconditional and you can bet I tested that many times. No matter what the offence, she was there, right beside me. Sometimes just to help and other times to hold me up.

My sophomore year in high school I got pregnant with my oldest son…not once did she ever say a word to me that put me down or hurt me…she stood beside me and helped me the whole way through. She taught me what I needed to know to care for my son with love and compassion because she loved me, unconditionally. I couldn’t have made it without her. She was my rock and I was so blessed to have her as my mother. When other girls were getting kicked out of their homes or sent to St. Mary’s, my momma was embracing me and showing me that I could and would be a good mother to my son. She was right there beside me. Her love never failed or faltered for an instant.

I remember how hard it was to leave her…whether at age 16 or at age 56. At 16, I knew I would see her again, but at 56, I knew I wouldn’t see her again until it was my time to go home…that was the hardest good-bye of my life.

And momma knew everything…even before I could tell her. I would come home from school and she would ask in a certain tone…”So, how was school today?” She knows!  No matter what I did…right or wrong, she knew about it before I got home so there was no even trying to lie about it…she said she just knew, but I was sure it was Suzie Smith down the street..Couldn’t get anything past her…she told us kids, and had me convinced, that she had eyes in the back of her head too!

We called her the Energizer Bunny because she never stopped. She took care of us, my dad, and our home. She was always there when woke up, when we came home from school, and was there when we went to bed at night. She worked nights so that she could be with us during the day. I often wondered when she slept because she always seemed to be there for us no matter what time of the day or night. It was her job to care for us and I believe she took that job very seriously. We were always fed, clothed, and had a roof over our heads…she ALWAYS sent us to bed with a hug, a kiss, and a God Bless You…each and every night.

My momma opened her first restaurant, Casa de Oro, when I was fourteen. Amazing Mexican food and she ran that for several years…through the years she had two others, worked for Safeway for many years and then in her later 50’s went back to school to be a Medical Assistant. She loved that job. She worked in Dermatology and loved her patients and the doctor she worked for. She was very happy in that job and hated to retire, but she did. My parents bought a motor home and dreamed of traveling the States…instead they visited with family. Me in Washington, my daughter in Kansas, my uncle back east…she loved visiting her family and we would have so much fun when they came here to Washington to visit me and my family.

I remember on one visit I ordered chickens and we had to go to Olympia Post Office to get them one Sunday…because I order a full clutch, they gave me an ‘Exotic’ chicken…my momma named her Martha and then joked  that they should have included her pole to dance with…  She was not that type of exotic chicken! hahaha …Momma could be a hoot! I still have Martha…she is a Turken Naked Neck and rules the roost just like momma did!

On one of her many visits, I was having a yard sale…she was out there setting up tables with my dad and making sure everything was good to go…she was on the grass and stepped into a slight dip in the grass and almost fell…she caught herself and ended up doing  a bit of a funny dance and my son, Bobby, saw her and said, “Whoa there little twinkle toes!” She laughed so hard at that she almost fell again and Bobby turned to me and said, “she’s not listening.” She must have told that story to everyone that came to buy that day.

I think what I miss most is her laughter and her hugs…she gave great hugs. When she was in her home and I needed one, I would call her and she would say, “I’m hugging you tight right this minute.Do you feel my arms around you?” and I could…I miss that.

My momma loved to laugh and did so all the time. She would always find the humor in things. What a blessing she was to us kids and my father. And she was so right about talents…the talents that God gave her were the right ones…they have been such a blessing as she passed them down to me and I in turn, without realizing it, passed them to my oldest daughter who is an amazing mother to her children… I guess you could say momma passed down a legacy of unconditional love and that is the greatest gift a mother can give her children. She always told me that no one person is perfect. That all anyone can do is to try their best to be the best that they can be at that time in their life. Thank you, Momma for the unconditional love you showed us, for the lessons you taught us, and for the smile you always had for us…I love and miss you with all my heart and soul.

I will leave you with this…

Knew and old girl 6 feet tall…slept in the kitchen with her feet in the hall…Catalina Matalina Ooka Stauka Balla Walla Ogan Logan Bogan was her name

Had two hairs on top of her head one was black the other one red… Catalina Matalina Ooka Stauka Balla Walla Ogan Logan Bogan was her name

Had two eyes front of her head one was brass the other one lead…Catalina Matalina Ooka Stauka Balla Walla Ogan Logan Bogan was her name

Had two teeth middle of her mouth one turned east the other turned south…Catalina Matalina Ooka Stauka Balla Walla Ogan Logan Bogan was her name…

The spelling is probably all wrong, but it doesn’t matter.



Maddie’s Miracle….

Here’s a little teaser for you of Maddie’s Miracle


He stood and walked slowly over to the plate glass window. He put it in so his beloved Maddie could see her flowers blooming in spring time. Ah, his beautiful Maddie, wouldn’t she be a proud woman if she were here right now and could see the lovely family that her death had brought forth on that frightful and stormy night.

Taking a long and deep draw on his pipe, Timothy McDuff looked out over his land. “Maddie girl,” he said while sighing deeply, “I never thought I would live this long without you.”

He turned away from the window and slowly walked back to his rocker. He could feel the strain in his sixty-eight year old body as he lowered himself into his chair. Observing his grandchildren as they put the finishing touches on the tree Evan cut down for the family this morning, he silently said a prayer for his beloved Maddie, asking his Heavenly Father to watch over her and keep her safe until He found it fit to call him back home.

“Look at the tree, Gramps,” said little Liam pulling on his arm to bring his attention back to the task at hand.

“Aye…and a grand tree it is,” he said as he surveyed the fine work they had done.

Standing a might taller than Evan’s own 6 and a half feet, it was a grand sight to see the strings of popcorn, hand carved figurines, and brass bells that adorned its branches. Evan was lifting little Liam onto his shoulder so that he could place their beloved Angel at the top of the tree. Maddie had admired it from afar every time he took her to town. Made of White porcelain glass, she had a delicately painted smile, pink cheeks, and blue eyes like his Maddie had. Her dress was made of the finest white silk and lace. In each hand she held a candlestick made of gold. He bought it for her the year Evan was born. She never got the chance to see it. He placed it at the top of the tree every year knowing that his Maddie would be watching over them from her place in the beautiful heavens above. I miss you my Maddie girl… a single tear falling onto his cheek, he turned his attention back to his grandson.

Little Liam raised his arms and easily set the beautiful angle atop the tree on the tallest branch. There, now it truly was a sight to behold. The angel has been guarding his family for thirty six years, ever since the night those three young men found their way to their farm.
Gramps!” cried Liam, “Tell us the story.”

“Oh, yes!” added Tara, “Please tell us the story of our miracle.”

Timothy McDuff has told this story each Christmas Eve now for the last four years; ever since little Tara was six years old. He chuckled to himself and readily agreed.

“All right you two…settle yourselves right down here and get cozy. Gramps is going to tell you about our miracle.” He took another long draw on his pipe, looked down into their bright, shiny, blue eyes and began…

Until next time…
Stay safe and God bless,

Holiday Traditions….

Holiday traditions are something I need to have in my life. I don’t know about you all, but traditions keep memories of loved ones gone in the present. There are so many that matter to me and my family that I think I would bore you if I listed them all. I will tell you that today I will be making Tamales for our Christmas Eve party tomorrow night. I have been making them for 30 years and I think if I skipped a year my name would surely be mud! My husband has eaten tamales and eggs for Christmas morning breakfast for the last 30 years and has no intentions of eating anything else at this time.

I try to write my stories with the same love of traditions… I think it makes them more real to the reader if they can relate to some of the traditions my characters have as they may be the same as some of their own also.

In Maddie’s Miracle, my Christmas story set in the late 19th century, she brings with her from Ireland the special cloths and ornaments her mother used for their Christmas tree  and table when she was a young girl still living at home. Those cloths and ornaments help to keep her mother’s memory alive to her as she made her way to America.

Traditions are something we all need in our lives and I bet even if you think you may not have any, you really have several that make the season special for you and your family.

I would love to hear about your holiday traditions…please share if you’d like.

Until next time…

Stay safe and God Bless,


Lifes changes….

     This year has been a difficult one for my family and I.  We lost our mother to cancer and even though you know it’s inevitable, it is still devastating to know that my mother is in Heaven and not here with us any longer.  My family and I have been doing our best to keep it together and to try to keep life going, but it’s hard…we miss her so much. 
     I hope to keep my blog on a happy note and to share all that I’m doing with you all as often as possible.  I have a few things in the works that I hope to get working on and will posts excerpts as I can.

     Tonight my husband and best friend took me out on a ‘Date Night’…something we haven’t done is so long. It was so fun looking forward to something and getting dressed up for him. I even put make-up on! Wasn’t sure I still remembered how! LOL  We went to my favorite place, JEREMY’S, and had a lovely dinner and listened to the soothing piano music that played in the background. Plans to continue the practice were made and I’m hoping we do not let life get in the way of spending such sweet ‘dates’ together in the future.

I held a contest 12-2 through 12-15 for 3 FREE Kindles and was pleased that the winners were very excited to receive their Kindles.

Congratulations to Jezika Johnson, Veronica Banks, and Daisha Korth!

Until next time,

Stay safe and God Bless,